Tag: personal growth
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Designing a Fulfilling Motherhood Life: Jiezhen on Matrescence, Leadership, and Letting Go
“I already knew my impact in the world.” When Jiezhen became a mom, she was already a leadership coach, Harvard graduate, and impact-driven entrepreneur. But motherhood ushered her into an entirely new season—one where identity, purpose, and priorities were stretched, stripped back, and rebuilt. “My daughter broke me in the best way possible,” she shares.…
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How Well Is Your Marriage Doing Post-Baby? (Free Self-Assessment Tool!)
Becoming a mother is life-changing—and so is becoming parents. You and your spouse may still be under the same roof, but it can feel like you’re living in two different worlds. Between night feeds, toddler tantrums, mounting responsibilities at work, and the invisible weight of the mental load, your relationship might feel like it’s surviving……
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Top 10 ways for moms with young kids to practice self-care and have better mental health this CNY
Lunar New Year can be low-key stressful if you’re a mom with young kids. I can relate. There’s the invisible mental load You’re sourcing pretty red packets (ang bao packets), ensuring that you’ve got enough brand new $2 notes, looking at the bank new notes dispenser schedule, checking off the list of older relatives, aunties,…
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25 Days to Better Mental Health, More Resilience, Joy and Peace-filled Days (Foundation for your 2025 goals and the secret tips from a therapist)
If you’re looking to have better mental health, be more resilient, more joyful and peace-filled this 2025, start investing in your self-awareness. You can sign up for the TOTALLY FREE 25 days mindfulness challenge here. Remember, this is not your “sit down-breathe-meditate” kind of mindfulness. It’s helping you to get on top of the five…
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Why you need counselling? And here’s your free alternative.
Personal story ahead… When I was struggling with BGR (boy-girl relationship) issues, low self-esteem, lots of shame and stress over academics, I didn’t go to my parents. I didn’t go to the school counsellor. When I was going through a burnout and feeling completely lost in my careeer post-graduation, I didn’t go to a career…
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I’m self-compassionate because I’m resilient – tips for mothers & children to building emotional resilience
Before we get into the WHAT and HOW to practice self-compassion, let’s start with the WHY. Why bother? Research shows that practicing self-compassion: Less stress, more social, having hope and joy for life – who doesn’t want that? It also contributes to better emotional regulation and resilience, which is exactly what we covered in the…
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What is counselling?
After 4 years undertaking my Masters of Arts in Counseling, my parents admitted over a family lunch, “Actually, I still don’t get it. What do you do?” Honestly, counselling sounded like fluff to me. I sit down, talk to a person for a couple of times and miraculously, my problems go away and I become…
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Every choice is a parenting decision.
Even those you think are made from societal pressure, circumstance, or ignorance. I know, that sounds kind of scary and overwhelming. I’ve a personal story. When my child turned 6 months and I was due back at work, I decided to place my child with my mother. Mothers, they can be strong convictions about how…
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It takes practice.
Parenting can be messy. You’re new to it – how do you discipline, how do you stay calm, how do you make decisions about everything from food to childcare to family values. Aside from the emotional turmoil of being uncertain, parenting is also quite literally messy. Think baby-led weaning. Think your child would never throw…
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It’s messy because you’re new at it.
Ask a breastfeeding mother. Have you stained your clothes and needed yet another change? Have you also sprayed milk all over your bra, your new bed covers and your newborn’s entire face? Have you struggled with the nursing cover while trying to keep your wailing newborn from falling? Have you skipped a pump because you…
Thriving New Mama 